What to talk about whith a girl?

Start with the things you have in common, like a class you take together or a teacher you both have/had, maybe a movie you know she has seen, and ask her what she thought of it. The whole idea is to talk about things you both know in order to find out more of the things you have in common.

If this is in preparation to asking her out, you can ask if she likes movies, or find out if she goes to local sports events. That way you know you will both enjoy that first date.

If this is for something to say on the first date, then start with what you have been doing, ask how she liked the movie, or if she likes the restaurant you are going to.

Eventually you will find more things you have in common and the talking will get easier.
Girls are told to ask you questions about yourself, so they can get to know you, it works well the other way around too.

Mostly if you like someone, your interest will show in not only the things you talk about but in the things you do as well. Holding a door for a girl, helping her over a rough patch in the sidewalk or letting her have the bigger (or last) piece of food you are sharing, go a long way toward becoming good friends.

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