What is the best way to get out of an abusive relationship?

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just get up and leave or go to the cops

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Cut your losses, leave and never look back. Cut off all contact with the abuser change your phone number, do not let him know where you are staying or how to get ahold of you.

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I recently left an abusive relationship with a woman that I fell in love with. I just left one day because I couldn't tolerate it anymore. She wanted an explanation and when I attempted to give her one, it was discounted and my feelings were devalued at which point she then tried to blame everything on me and make her out to be the victim. Typical behavior of an abuser. That in turn gave me further reinforcement that I made the right decision in leaving. Relationships are "at-will". You don't owe an explanation. Just trust your gut and do what is best for you and don't look back.

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