What is the best way to end a verbally abusive relationship?

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unless the person is willing to and desiring to change or at least improve you must LEAVE, and to everyone: the sooner you end it the less severe poast-breakup blues will be. as soon as you notice he or she treats you bad, drop em. unfortunately for some people their partners dont show true colors until after marriage or after a long while.

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The best way to end this type of relationship is to leave. He/she will most likely never change. All you can be responsible for is your own happiness. Take control away from the abuser and take control of your own life! Get help from a trained professional if necessary.

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How does one end any relationship, abusive or not? By leaving the other party (in this case, the abuser). Lots of tips here:

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abuse.html

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/abusefamily.html

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The verbally abusive partner is trying to control you with fear. Verbal abuse in many relationships is only the beginning and physical abuse will become part of the process also. The verbal abuse is supposed to weaken you by causing fear, shock, numbness, and making you keep busy doing things to keep the verbal abuse from happening. Your abuser becomes the object of an obsessive desire to 'stay safe' in the relationship. This can form a dependency where without this constant object of your thoughts and actions you feel lost. You can't stay but you can't leave either. Maybe tomorrow it will get better. Start by making a written list of the things that are said to verbally abuse you. That is a type of taking back control. Then write how you feel and where you feel it when you read the list. Then take the list to a good professional and begin the process of changing yourself in order to leave.

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Just end all contact.

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