What are the negatives of having a child out of wedlock?

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This is my opinion only, but I feel it's important that a child have both parents if possible. Since the 60s having children out of wedlock didn't have the stigmatism it use to have. I have heard successful stories of a single mother or father raising their child very well. It's about the quality of time you spend with that child and the love you surround that child with. Many single parents will marry a little later on and often the new husband will take up the father imagine and form a bond with that child.

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There is wisdom in what is said above. A child reqires both parents to be raised to their full potential. The love and nurturing that can only come from a woman is truly the most increadible thing. Yet everything showes that a real father seems to strengthen a child as well. Do some research about families and you will see that children do their best with a mother and father.

In my faith we believe a child has a right to both parents. You must make your choise however. Just remember that even an imperfect marrige (which they all are, they involve us poor lunatic guys that you wonderful women have to help all the time) is better for the children. You ladys just be picky about the guys you love. You could get stuck like my poor wife of 14 years. lololol

make a good choice for your child have a great day

First answer by Marcy. Last edit by DaddyO 9. Contributor trust: 221 [recommend contributor]. Question popularity: 43 [recommend question]