Should you feel bad about paying for everything since your boyfriend is a FT student and has no income?

This question makes me think that you already do "feel bad", or that someone outside of the situation has been dropping hints.

If you are in fact felling bad, I suggest you look at your situation. You say your boyfriend is a student, I'm assuming you are not, and therefore you have taken up the responsibility for funding your time together.
If you are living together then there should be some money coming into the household from him, leaving your disposable income to pay for your entertainments. If this is putting an undue stress on your finances then it might be sensibly to cut back on the frequency of your outings or maybe try incorporating entertainments that are "free".
If you are not living together, then again I recommend you look at how much and how you are spending.

If however this is in response to outside "talk" and you are alright with the current situation, then let them talk. There is always someone out there that will have to say something to stir the waters of someone else's pond.

This situation is not permanent, your boyfriend won't be a student forever, eventually he will have enough income to be able to pick up the tab. If he's a great guy with a future I see no reason to let the current situation spoil your future.

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