How would you help your son if he wants to dress up like a girl for the summer just to see what it's like?

Well first of all how old is he......be careful...young boys and men really get sexually aroused by dressing as young girls...the silky lingerie can really be an addictive sensation against their genitals...remember women have sensations inside but boys outside...imagine the sensations of silky panties, a slip, stockings, and a skirt or dress made of silky material.....you know how it feels now sliding and slipping around his genitals...trust me know. I asked to do the same thing at age 13 and I spent the summer in a constant state of orgasm and erections. I even got my mother to let me join a square dance group as a girl of course. Oh my gosh wearing those silky petticoats and the sissy panties was so arousing I would wear them all the time...my mother finally said you are wearing out those petticoats. Half way through the summer I had shaved the little hair on my legs and underarms, was wearing makeup and the clothing of a girl my age but really silky and sexy lingerie more like my older sister, they called me laura and were treating me like another daughter/sister. I convinced my sister to buy me my own makeup, cut my long hair like a girl, buy me some really sheer white panties, a lacy bra and silicone inserts, and a satin half slip for under my skirts and a long and short silky lacy feminine nightgowns. That was it I spent every waking and sleeping minute as Laura. I could not go back by end of summer and was enrolled into high school as a girl. Now at 17 I am about to graduate high school and still live my life as Laura...I wish my mother never allowed me to start but she did and I am hooked and I know it. I have been taking hormones since age 14 and have real breasts now and still orgasm in my panties all day long becasue I am so aroused by how I live. I spend my day soiling panties and I love it.

Laura

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You know deep inside this is not normal behavior for your son and most young men don't go around dressing up like a girl. It's time to sit down with your son and ask him straight out if he feels he is gay. He may not know what he is at this point and there is no shame in that. He may simply be a "cross dresser" which means he likes to wear women's clothing. I just saw a program on cross dressers and the men led perfectly normal lives ... were married, had children, went to work and once he was home, the kids were in bed, he dressed up in women's clothing. Some of the wives accepted it and lived with it and others couldn't cope with it.

Whatever happens, be blessed he's alive and healthy and if gay, support him all you can, and if he wants to dress up in women's clothing in private then accept that, but it's highly dangerous for him to dress up like a woman for the summer. His peers could be very cruel and harmful to him. I don't think your son realizes this.

Try talking your son into seeing a psychologist to straighten out his thoughts (not straighten out who he is inside!)

Good luck Marcy

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Start small. Dress up at home, maybe go shopping dressed up like a girl. Maybe a weekend trip full time as a girl. And sure, why not spend a summer as a girl while he can still pass for one. Get lots of pictures.

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