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How can you stop your husband's abuse? |
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Patricia Evans in her book, The Verbally Abusive Relationship" has some ideas to do this. However, in my short experience, it seems better for the couple to separate while they are undergoing counseling to attempt to build better behaviors. The important thing is that BOTH partners have to agree to work on this, since it will take both to amend the co-dependent and abuser behavior. If the abuser does not complete the required actions (admitting the abuse, getting help and taking positive action), then that is a deal breaker to the relationship. It will not work with just the one partner reminding the abuser to stop unless there is a clear awareness between the both of them to change the relationship. Apologies, justification and manipulation by the abuser are all too likely.
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Two ways:
You can stop him from abusing you by leaving him.
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You can stop him from abusing anyone by having him put in jail.
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You can no more stop abuse than you can cause it to start. You cannot control someone else's actions. You can only affect your own. Stop being abused, by anyone and everyone, and that will begin a journey that may bring about the result you are looking for.
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You cannot stop abuse, you can only take steps to protect yourself emotionally and physically.
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The only way i have found after two abusive relationships to stop the abuse is to get far away, and feel sorry for them from afar. and i have realized that you cannot change the spots on a leopard. These are very sick individuals that need help you cannot give them, they have to seek help, and even then I have not seen many change. their next mate will suffer the same abuse and so on and so on.
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Put up some articles and pictures of Loranna Bobbott on the fridge.
First answer by ID0000000000. Last edit by Keebler73. Contributor trust: 40 [recommend contributor]. Question popularity: 202 [recommend question]
